Somewhat Related

Tonight I watched the movie 独自等待 again while replying emails. I like this Chinese movie much more than the other 大成本制造 such as 夜宴, 黄金甲, etc. It is more humane and reflects what's happening in China - young girls dating elder guys who have money.

Then I browsed the Next Magazine, and was caught by the headline "新歡細廿二年　黃秋生拋妻棄子". I guess these kind of things are so common in the society. While people are condemning these, some of them undoubtedly would choose to do the same IF given a choice. Sometimes I really wonder what does marriage mean to those people, and whether they can foresee themselves going through these when they first got married.

That reminds me of the "Stumbling on Happiness" book I am reading these days, which explains we may not know ourselves as well as we thought, and what we perceive to make ourselves happy in the future is often not true.

Too much random thoughts. I should go to bed now.